nair matrimonial traditions

Are you looking for more information on Nair wedding rituals and traditions? Well, we are here to tell you all about it. Keep reading to find out!

Nair people mostly belong to God’s own country Kerala. Apart from possessing a breathtaking view of nature and scenic beauty, Kerala is also rich in its culture and traditions. The Nair matrimonial celebrations are in itself an example of it. Their weddings are usually simple and elegant and will warm your heart just by being in them. Apart from showcasing the rich culture, Nair matrimonial traditions also speak of their elegance and authenticity. Wish to know more about their marriages? The below paragraphs are the guide for the same. Ready further to know!

Muhurtam and Nishchayam

Muhurtam and Nishchayam are two of the pre-wedding ritual where the horoscopes of the Nair bride and the groom are matched and analyzed if the match is possible or not. The astrologer also suggests ways and solutions to both parties if there is a presence of some Doshas in their Kundali. Later, the Pandit finalize their marriage and fix an auspicious date for the same. The Nair families also observe the famous ring ceremony on Nishchayam to officiate the match. Only close family members are invited on the occasion. The ring ceremony is also known as Mothiram Maatal. Once the ring ceremony is over the bride and the groom receives beautiful gifts from the guests.


As the name suggests, the Aashirwadam is actually a blessing ceremony in Nair matrimonial traditions. The bride and the groom sit opposite to each other, prays to their Deity, and receive blessing from the elders in the family. Also, the couples are dressed fully in their traditional attire for the occasion. The bride wears a stunning silk saree with gold ornaments while the groom is fashioned in traditional silk Kurta.

Mehendi Ceremony

However, the Mehendi ceremony of Nair matrimonial weddings is the same as in other states and religions. But the only difference is that apart from calling a professional Mehendi designer for the task, the aunt of the Nair bride draws beautiful and intricate patterns on her hand. 

Although a beautiful Mehendi is a matter of huge importance to the bride and her aunt cannot necessarily expertise in the art. So, after the completion of the ritual, an expert Mehendi designer to called to finish the designs. 

Wedding day or Kudivep

The Nair matrimonial wedding rituals is traditionally known as Kudivep. The ceremonies take place on the wedding day. Originally, the Nair grooms and brides use to observe their weddings at their home. But the ritual has slightly changed to shed the burden and load of extra preparations. Nowadays, a marriage hall or hotel is booked to accommodate the huge guest list. However, the mandap is decorated in the same way. Also, the rest of the ceremonies take place in the same way. 


Surprised, well yes. The Haldi ceremony in Nair matrimonial traditions is observed on the wedding day or during the wedding rituals. However, most Nair families prefer to do it on the wedding mornings. The ladies of both families apply turmeric and sandalwood paste to both the bride and groom on the Haldi. 

Dakshina Kodukkal

Dakshina means in Nair matrimonial traditions mean seeking the blessings of the elders right before you are about to marry. The bride and the groom go straight to touch the feet of elders and ask for their blessings. The Nair bride carries the whole traditional get-up with Kerala Kasavu saree or Silk saree with lots of gold ornaments and the groom wears a silk kurta with white dhoti. 

Thaalikettu – The Traditional Nair Wedding

Thaalikettu is the beginning of the famous Nair matrimonial wedding. The groom arrives with his family and friends at the venue where the bride’s brother welcomes him. The latter washes the feet of the groom and a few young girls from the bride’s side, walk along with the groom with lanterns. They take the groom to the Mandap. Later, the bride walks in the venue and sits alongside the groom. Also, Musicians play the Nadaswaram as the bride approaches for the Mandap. The bride’s father gives the groom a Thali which the groom ties around the bride’s neck. 


The Nair groom and the bride then exchange garlands in Pudamuri and the groom gifts a beautiful silk saree to the bride. The custom is significant for starting a new journey and the responsibility of the groom toward the bride. 


Kanyadaan is usually observed in all the Hindu traditions in India so in Nair matrimony weddings. This is one of the most emotional moments for the bride and the groom. The father of the bride takes her hand and puts it in the groom’s hand as a sign of handing over his daughter to the groom. The pledge to take care of the bride forever from that moment. Later, the couple seek blessings from the elder. 


Sadhya is one of the most crucial rituals for thanking and welcoming the presence of all the guests in the Nair matrimonial wedding. Sadhya is served with 25 different vegetarian dishes on a banana leaf. 

So, Sadhya marks the end of all the imperative rituals in Nair matrimonial wedding. Later Grihpravesh and reception takes place at the groom’s place for the welcoming of the bride. 

By Anurag Rathod

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